No one can deny that body language plays a crucial role in catching girls' attention-and keeping it. Nearly *75%* of signals women send is through body language--so you're not going to find out if she's into you from words alone! Unfortunately, many men miss out on these signals, and thus miss out on the girl. The good news is, if you CAN read a girl's signals, you stand out from the rest of guys, and make yourself all the more attractive! With that said, here are 6 signs that she's not into you, and 10 signs that she is!
BAD BODY LANGUAGE
1. Not making eye contact with you—looking around, eyeing her friends, looking anywhere but at you
2. Legs crossed—always a bad sign. This means she's closing herself off to you
3. Arms crossed—This can convey annoyance and impatience. Definitely a bad sign.
4. Hands on her hips—This can also convey impatience. Not looking good.
5. Leaning backwards—It's much better when a woman is leaning towards you. If you notice her leaning away from you, keeping her distance, it means you've gotten too close for her comfort and she's not that into you, at least at this point.
6. A weak handshake—Do you shake a girl's hands when you meet her? If you do and notice that hers is weak and she is quick to take back her hand, then she's not very impressed.
GOOD BODY LANGUAGE
1. She looks down when you see her and smiles-A very good sign. She's shy but wants you to come over to talk to her.
2. She's twirling her hair around-Definitely into you.
3. Licks her lips-unless you can tell she's screwing with you, this is a very good sign!
4. Open legs-Open legs, open mind. She's open to hearing more from you-and who knows what else.
5. Sideways glance-The classic Hollywood flirtation, this is a coy, seductive way of showing her interest
6. Fondling a cylindrical object (cigarette, glass, etc.)-VERY good sign! And a hint of what she may have in mind for later on in the evening…
7. Fondling her shoe (shoe is slight off her foot, twisting her foot in circles)-This is that classic shy signal that girls use to display interest.
8. The "leg twine"-one leg pressed hard against the other to give the appearance of high muscle tone-very good sign
9. The head toss-If she tosses her hair back over her shoulders, this is definitely a good gesture.
10. Exposed wrists-If she's interested in you, she will gradually display the smooth, soft skin of her wrists to a guy she's interested in. Wrists are actually considered one of the more erotic areas of the body-so if she's showing you this sexual area-go for it!
Hope these tips help you out. Remember, none of this will do you any good if you don't follow up on it! If a girl is showing interest, it's up to you to take the next step and show your attraction BACK to her. Tune in to my next article on what YOU as a man must do to successfully attract female attention, using flirtatious body language. Because it's your turn!
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For single guys, trying to meet woman can be a very frustrating process. Even if we go to the right places and find interesting girls, it still can be difficult due to the fact that guys have to be the ones who initiate a conversation.
Making the first move can be quite intimidating due to the fact that many guys don't know what to say or how to start talking to women.
Even worse, a lot of guys are unsure if a girl will be interested in them.
But if you become a master at reading the body language of women, you can avoid that initial uneasiness and have the confidence to approach women.
So what is body language?
Basically body language is the collection of traits and behavior that all people give off which indicates our conscious (and sub-conscious) feelings. By paying attention to the body language of a woman, you'll be able to tell if she wants you to talk to her.
Having this knowledge will make approaching her that much easier. So when you locate a girl that you are interested in, take a look at her body language and pay attention to these three indicators of interest:
1) Eye Contact
Before even talking to a woman, try to make direct eye contact with her. Often you'll see her looking away quickly and then glancing back at you. If she holds your eye contact, then that is a definite indicator that she has an interest in you.
In addition, when she knows that you're looking at her, study how she interacts with her friends and environment. Try to find anything that indicates a level of nervousness. This shows that she is attracted to you and is having trouble composing herself.
2) Touching Her Hair
For some mysterious reason, women show their interest in a guy by playing with their hair. By watching how she touches her hair, you'll find out her level of interest.
Once you make eye contact, study how she touches her hair. The first thing you should look for is if she flips her hair. If you see her toss her hair from one side to the other and then looks directly at you, this indicates that she has some level of desire for you and would like you to engage her in a conversation.
Some other hair indicators can include caressing her hair as she talks to her friends or twirling hair around her finger. If you see these actions coupled with looks in your direction, then you're being sent a subtle message.
3) Pointing Her Body Towards You
A powerful way to find out if a woman likes you is to watch how she positions her body after making initial eye contact. If she positions her body in your general direction, then this shows she is attracted to you.
When studying her, you are basically looking for certain indicators which demonstrate a subconscious desire for you to talk to her. Some gestures can include:
• Feet pointing towards you
• Exposing her wrists in your direction
• Widening her legs
If you see any maneuver from a woman which indicates an "opening up", she is telling you that she is attracted and wants you to initiate a conversation.
By paying attention to the body language of women, you can find out their level of desire without even speaking a word. If you're the shy type, then this is a great way to build confidence before making your first move.
So next time you're looking for women, take some time to check out what they are saying to you without speaking a word.
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